St George's Mass of Remembrance
Our ‘Mass of Remembrance’ for all those bereaved in the past 12 months took place on Sunday, 23rd November (month of the Holy Souls) at 3pm. We feared that truly awful weather might deter attendance, but there were over 150 in church. Personal invitations were sent out to the families of the 40 ‘loved ones’ whose funeral took place in, or from, St. George’s. Over 60% of those families were represented. After Holy Communion a representative from each family present was invited to go forward to light a candle before the altar as 44 names were read slowly and meaningfully. Fr. Lister’s homily recognised the pain of loss but the overriding hope of God’s love – ‘Jesus remember me’! A beautiful order of service ensured full participation whilst our soloist, Annemarie Newton’s ‘Pie Jesu’ prompted quite a few tears. The blaze of the candles in a darkened church granted a special atmosphere for reflection.
Among those present were family members from Darlington, Caterham, St. Helens – whilst Fr. Cobham’s older brother in Orpington was able to join us via ‘Live Stream’, as we named and remembered his wife June, likewise Ashleigh Green from Reigate. Fr. Joe Robinson’s niece, and carer was so pleased to be invited.
After the Mass, a good proportion resorted to ‘The Venue’, looking very bright and welcoming, to enjoy a ‘cuppa’ with lots of Peter Pope’s abundant delicious cakes - and each other’s company. A common bond of bereavement with a strong sense of belonging to our parish family.
The Bereavement Group were all involved in drafting the Liturgy and fulfilled roles within; none more important than the Ministry of Welcome allowing us to greet families whom we gave support at the time of the funerals.
There has been much feedback as to this moving and meaningful occasion, and the Team valued the help and encouragement of other parishioners for the ‘hospitality’.
